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BWHOUR · BWHOUR

Trying to continue coping despite my past history. I Lost my job( of almost 10 years) last November and not given a reason for losing my job by my former employer either. Also, please remember me in your prayers as I pray for all other crime victims like us in my prayers too.

BlondeDIDharris · BlondeDIDharris

Afternoon All, I'm Annemarie brand new on here today, finding my way around and trying to make a good impression while i'm having a good day( not too many of them at the moment) All the message on here are great really helps to know that there is someone who knows what you are going through, I get sick of h...

Runningman · Runningman

And a big hello to anyone out there. Just a few details. I am Male 47 yearsold. Married. Two wonderful(grown up children). Live in South Wales and looking for new contacts.

tracym · tracym

Hi My name is Tracy and i'm 26 years old. I live in west yorkshire and i am currently working as an early years support worker in a childrens centre. The reason i am here is that i was sexually abused by my older brother who is 8 years older than me i was 11 when it started. I bottled it up for a long time but r...

bubbles · bubbles

hi i am new i am 20 and i am called bubbles i was abused from age 4 to age 10ish maybe later by different people, i live on isle of man i hope to make some friends who understand, love ~:bubbles:~

louisa · louisa

hi im new on this, i was abused by my father from the age of 7 up untill i was 19 and a half. then when he tried to touch my at that point 7yr old niece i went to the police and made a statement. it took two yrs to get to court and he got 3yrs for abusing me and my older sister who i found out he had abused aswel...

hope · hope

HI, I am looking for advice for my partner. She was abused by her step father for 3 years and has never told anyone. she briefly mentioned it to me, Only in passing as she thinks her mother has found out. She is a keen rugby player but due to injury she is unable to play or go to the gym. The reason I mention this...

feemarie · feemarie

Hi there, My name is fiona and im 24 years old and live in liverpool in the uk. I have a little boy who is 3 who i love to bits!! I am here because i was sexually abused by my father from as far back as i can remember til i was about 11 and im trying to come to terms with it. This is all kinda scary and new but I re...

clare · clare

hello everyone i am a member of the havoca support forum, and while visiting havoca have come accross this pen pal board thing is it doesnt seem to be very active, or am i missing something and everybody is somewhere else? i recognise some names... guess i just dont know what to do now !!! rega...

Thunder · Thunder

Hi my name is james and iam 27 years old. i was abused by a teacher at a borading school from the ages of 11 to 13. I tryed to kill myself when i was 14 because of this. At the moment i am suffering from great depression and flashbacks and i have no one to talk to as my f...

James · James

Hi my name is James and i am 27 years old. At the age of 12 i was sent to a boarding school and was sexually abused by a teacher until i was 13. At the time i did not tell anyone and like today feel ashamed i did not. I told my family in april of last year and also i went to the police and gave them...

ceecee · ceecee

I am another new member and I was going to begin with something I am currently going through, but as I was signing up the history question, prompted another topic, my very beginning, because my mother had quite a few children from different men who she was never married to and she also never looke...

ktodee_25 · ktodee_25

Hi, My name is Katie and I'm 25 and am recovering from some past abuse I have experienced. I was sexually, emotionally, and psychologically abused. I was also bullied in school a lot, was neglected as a baby and in some of my childhood and in a domestic abuse situation with my adoptive...

solace · solace

hi everyone. i'm paul , 24, and i've only very recently been able to realise / admit to myself that something terrible sexually happened to me as a child... and realise and accept how it affects my adult life. it is nice to read and see that i am not alone. i would love to meet people through this site...

trashelle · trashelle

hi i am trashelle. I was abused from an early age till i was 11(afraid i am a little shaky on the age it started). I was abused by an aunt and possibly others. I am just starting my journey but have found that talking to other survivers as well as trained professionals has really helped. For the first time i k...

keekerdeekerdoo · keekerdeekerdoo

Hello all. I am new to this site and am a little worried about posting but would like to have an email pen pal. Ten years after my abuse, just now dealing with it. It's hard.

New Member - joined today · jing

Hello All, Just wanted to introduce myself. I am 38 year old woman, happily married for the last 10 years with 1 grown up son and 2 grown up step children. I am a survivor of sexual abuse from age 12 to 14 by a much older man who was not a family member. The abuse took place every Sunday dur...

angieteddy · angieteddy

Hi there I am Angie, I have been on the healing journey some 8 years. After many years of panic attacks and depression I have finally overcome them and begun to look after myself and realise I am important and worthy. I would love to email people of a similar age who has overcome many battles in the heali...

flora · flora

Hi everyone, I'm new to this site and very nervous about posting. I've only just started to admit that my father abused me psycchologically, physically and sexually when i was growing up. I'm now 24 and just facing up to what happened. I'd love to hear from you, Flora

Kat · Kat

I am very new at this and I have never told anyone about the abuse at my house growing up. I feeel sso scared right now. My stepfather sexaully abused me foe twelve years. I just need some one to talk to.

Kale · Kale

my name is Kale. my brother sexually abused me from 3 until 15 almost every day. i cant get rid of the shame and hatred i feel for myself. i dont know what to do anymore -- Edited by kachariw at 15:55, 2004-12-28

David1947 · David1947

Hi, I just logged in to be able to take a look around the site. It's very impressive and well intentioned and I'm sure it's of great help to certain people. Unfortunately for me, I see that all the members seem to be female and I seem to be the only male here. Very odd. I think that childhood sexual e...

new member · Dali03

hi im a 19 year old female college student.... i don't really feel comfortable saying a lot right this moment... but i thought the idea of joining something where there's bound to be someone that i can relate to sounded nice... i'll probally write more later... Peace

MelissaJoy02 · MelissaJoy02

Hey i am Melissa and am 20 yrs old. My cousin molested me when i was 7 yrs old and he was 14. He only did it once and it was at my grandparents house while they were down stairs and we were upstairs. Just trying to find a pen pal to chat w/ about it all b/c i am hoping one day to get past all of it....

michael · michael

hi my name is michael im 28yrs old i have been married for 2 months and have 2 children and one on the way. i was mentally and physically abused from a very early age by my father grandfather and stepfather i was sent to a bording school at the age of 12 because i was emotionally disturbed within three...

debbie · debbie

I am a 41 year old adult survivor of many years of abuse.As far back as I can remember is age 3. I would like to have a friend on the net. who woul like to be a buddy and listen to my my life and me listen to theirs . Maybe together we could help one another. &n...

New Member · lin

Hi I have just joined and would like to chat with others . Thanks Lin

daisy · daisy

Hi all, Im new here.I was sexually and mentally abused from when I was 5 till 17 years of age by my sociopathic/wife beating/pedophile/alcoholic/sexual deviant father.He abused me,my little sister,any friend I would bring in my house.So I stopped having friends ov...

Jem · Jem

Hi, My name is Jeremy, Jem for short. I am 38 and live in west yorkshire. I was abused by an uncle for 3 and a half years from the age of 14. After years of silence, my marriage broke down and I took an overdose to end it all. I survived it. I then told my Mother about my abuse and also my wife. When I told m...

StevenA875 · StevenA875

Hi, I hope I'm not intruding. I only see women's names on the site. If this site is for women only, please tell me and I'll go away. My name is Steve, I'm 42 years old and I'm a man. I was abused by daycare providers when I was 4, 5, and 6 years old. Also had a physically and mentally abu...

waskiw · waskiw

Just want to say hi, and maybe for someone to say hi to me. I feel so alone at times, even though I am married (for almost 16 years) and we have 3 girls and 1 boy. A year & 1/2 ago I told my Mother about what my dad did, everything kinda exploded from then... to make a long story short, dad die...

New Member Alert · CHEEKY DRAGON

Hello. Just joined. Been nosing around the site. I am 33. I was abused by my step father and my mother. I was regulary beaten from about aged 3 by both of them and bullied into silence. My step father started sexually abusing me from age 15 and continued beat...

lucyharvey · lucyharvey

its kind of funny to see 'new survivor' against my name. I am 43 and been a survivor for most of my life!! I have been visiting HAVOCA for a long time now ~ have even had two poems on the site a while ago. I just wanted to say HELLO and pleased to meet you all and sorry it is under these circumstan...

Segelov · Segelov

Hello This is just to say a big SORRY to every one who wrote to me. I thought that I would have enough time to start some conversations with others. Since posting the previous post life has changed, trying to come to terms with schedules imposed by others is very hard...

nutinhoney24 · nutinhoney24

First night on site. Hope this works. Have multiple diagnoses, from panic disorder, to PTSD and dissociate (only one personality though) Was recently given dx of manic depression. Mental Health has bounced me from one therapist to another for two years now. Dad was a sadistic rapist tha...

Segelov · Segelov

Hello, just introducing myself, I am a 52 year old woman, with two daughters and two grandchildren. I make a living by helping to run three very small businesses. I was abused psychologicaly, emotionaly and physically for most of my childhood. I was raped when I was ten by the father of two of my half s...

new member · suzy

just saying hi. Ive never done this before so thought would give it a go. Im 31 years old and have was abused by a baby sitter/family friend since as far back as i can remeber until i was 16 years old. I told my grandad and then he started to abuse me to. Im pretty messed up and i hate myse...

liz · liz

Hello - My name is Liz, I'm 44 (wow that looks old)!. Married with a 12 year old son who thinks I AM old! and live in South Yorkshire, uk. I was sexually abused as a teen-ager, disclosed nearly 4 years ago and sometimes wonder why I did - never realising then how the effects wou...

growing roots and wings · growing roots and wings

I'm a 46 year old woman, married (twice) with no children. I'm working as a professional in a fairly high-stress occupation. I'm dealing with maternal abuse, physical and psychological, and neglect. I'm also dealing with complete family estrangement - no contact with either close or ext...

numb · numb

Just want to say hi to everyone and thank you to Havoca for providing this forum. I am a 50 yr old lady who was abused for many years and am travelling the painful journey of healing at present. I hope that together with others here we can share our journey and give support to each other un...

new member · maryellen

Just would like to say hello to everyone as I am a new member. I am 44 years old, a mum of six. Iwas abused from an early age by various members of my family includind my father and grandfather. I have many dark spaces in my memoy. I disclosed about 3 nearly 4 years ago and am working through my life trying to fi...

amroberts66 · amroberts66

Hi My name is Angela, aged 38 and living in manchester. I was sexually abused from the age of 2 till 13 by friends / acquaintainces of the family. Not really sure what I am expecting or hoping to get from this, but I dont have anything to loose. Take care and hopefully talk to you soon...

Tears · Tears

Hi everyone, I am a 19 year old girl and i was sexually abused by my older cousin for the best part of four years, i told my secret last year and didnt really get the best reactiona or support from my family. I sometime wish i had never even told at all maybe it would have been easier to deal with than the...

leckie · leckie

my stepfather seems to think that he has ruined my life but he is mistaken his sexual abuse towards me turned me into a loner and afraid to talk to anyone as he told me if i told he would kill me and anyway no one would believe me. so i just grew up on my own from the age of 10 not caring or feeling for anyone and if i...

amy_jewish · amy_jewish

As a younger child i had been suffered child abuse and had been a childhood sexworker and prostitute and people in my area still want me to be their sexworker. I am Adrenal Hyperplasia (Intersex) and would like to contact people in edinburgh/scotland and elsewhere as I am recovering fro...

Tracy · Tracy

Hello - My name is Tracy. I am 39 years old and live in the North East of England. I was systematically sexually and physically abused by my father for around 12 years until I had the courage to escape the day before my 18th birthday. Why did I wait so long? The truth is I didn't realis...

amanda · amanda

Hello I am aware I am the first and this scares me as I feel a bit of a guinea pig but I hope I dont put you off replying. My name is Amanda I am 45 years of age live in England on the South Coast by the sea. My life was one of ritual abuse involving sexual physical and emotional punishments I hope I am a g...

New member saying Hello · Missy

Hello to all here on the forun. I actually got the link from a survivor from another survivors group that I am in. My story is long and confusing. I have posted my story on a webpage on a abuse support website, if you care to take the time to read my story, here is the link http://m...

caren34 · caren34

Hi I'm caren 34 from lancs uk ,mum to 6 wonderful kids and a wonderful B/F mark I suffered sexual , physical , and mental abuse from both my mum and dad , looking to chat to people that have been though same take care

LittleDragon · LittleDragon

hey.... I live in Birmingham and I am 23, I was abused by my cousin for four years from the age of four. i was raped by three different men on three different occasions when i was 18,19 and when i was 20. i am finding it difficult to believe that it can happen that many times without it being at least partly my f...

pokeitdi · pokeitdi

hi all, hi my name is Di and i am 28 and just moved to birmingham, I was abused from 4 till i was 13 by my mothers brother and now i am trying to come to terms with it as i never delt with this till now, i hope now im trying to sort this things will get better?? Di

Brujah81 · Brujah81

Hiya my name is Kelly i am 23 from Worthing. I was sexually, emotionally and physically abused by my stepfather for many years. After a long struggle he was put in prison... that was 6 years ago and hes due for parol soon, i am quite worried about this although the police and such like are very support...

Bob · Bob

Hi, My name is Bob, I'm 23 years old and I'm a man. I would love to chat to people who have suffered with childhood abuse. I was abused by my parents when I was an infant and I have suffered as a consequence since. Please use the private message function, after you have clicked on my name on...

Topic		Started By	Replies	Views	Last Post
	Learning to accept myself (Preview) Trying to continue coping despite my past history. I Lost my job( of almost 10 years) last November and not given a reason for losing my job by my former employer either. Also, please remember me in your prayers as I pray for all other crime victims like us in my prayers too.	BWHOUR	2	381	Mar 13, 2006 by salome
	Herefordshire Calling (Preview) Afternoon All, I'm Annemarie brand new on here today, finding my way around and trying to make a good impression while i'm having a good day( not too many of them at the moment) All the message on here are great really helps to know that there is someone who knows what you are going through, I get sick of h...	BlondeDIDharris	1	544	Mar 13, 2006 by salome
	Greetings... (Preview) And a big hello to anyone out there. Just a few details. I am Male 47 yearsold. Married. Two wonderful(grown up children). Live in South Wales and looking for new contacts.	Runningman	1	260	Mar 13, 2006 by salome
	Hi (Preview) Hi My name is Tracy and i'm 26 years old. I live in west yorkshire and i am currently working as an early years support worker in a childrens centre. The reason i am here is that i was sexually abused by my older brother who is 8 years older than me i was 11 when it started. I bottled it up for a long time but r...	tracym	2	323	Feb 9, 2006 by BlondeDIDharris
	hi (Preview) hi i am new i am 20 and i am called bubbles i was abused from age 4 to age 10ish maybe later by different people, i live on isle of man i hope to make some friends who understand, love ~:bubbles:~	bubbles	1	361	Feb 9, 2006 by BlondeDIDharris
	new and need someone who understands (Preview) hi im new on this, i was abused by my father from the age of 7 up untill i was 19 and a half. then when he tried to touch my at that point 7yr old niece i went to the police and made a statement. it took two yrs to get to court and he got 3yrs for abusing me and my older sister who i found out he had abused aswel...	louisa	1	303	Feb 9, 2006 by BlondeDIDharris
	ADvice needed (Preview) HI, I am looking for advice for my partner. She was abused by her step father for 3 years and has never told anyone. she briefly mentioned it to me, Only in passing as she thinks her mother has found out. She is a keen rugby player but due to injury she is unable to play or go to the gym. The reason I mention this...	hope	3	411	Jan 2, 2006 by cris
	Hi! (Preview) Hi there, My name is fiona and im 24 years old and live in liverpool in the uk. I have a little boy who is 3 who i love to bits!! I am here because i was sexually abused by my father from as far back as i can remember til i was about 11 and im trying to come to terms with it. This is all kinda scary and new but I re...	feemarie	8	405	Nov 17, 2005 by tina
	hello (Preview) hello everyone i am a member of the havoca support forum, and while visiting havoca have come accross this pen pal board thing is it doesnt seem to be very active, or am i missing something and everybody is somewhere else? i recognise some names... guess i just dont know what to do now !!! rega...	clare	2	260	Oct 20, 2005 by kachariw
	New and need someone to talk to (Preview) Hi my name is james and iam 27 years old. i was abused by a teacher at a borading school from the ages of 11 to 13. I tryed to kill myself when i was 14 because of this. At the moment i am suffering from great depression and flashbacks and i have no one to talk to as my f...	Thunder	1	282	Oct 16, 2005 by Brujah81
	Need a friend to talk to. (Preview) Hi my name is James and i am 27 years old. At the age of 12 i was sent to a boarding school and was sexually abused by a teacher until i was 13. At the time i did not tell anyone and like today feel ashamed i did not. I told my family in april of last year and also i went to the police and gave them...	James	2	336	May 13, 2005 by louisa
	Another Newbie and info (Preview) I am another new member and I was going to begin with something I am currently going through, but as I was signing up the history question, prompted another topic, my very beginning, because my mother had quite a few children from different men who she was never married to and she also never looke...	ceecee	0	225	Feb 19, 2005 by ceecee
	New here (Preview) Hi, My name is Katie and I'm 25 and am recovering from some past abuse I have experienced. I was sexually, emotionally, and psychologically abused. I was also bullied in school a lot, was neglected as a baby and in some of my childhood and in a domestic abuse situation with my adoptive...	ktodee_25	1	277	Jan 24, 2005 by jing
	new guy =) (Preview) hi everyone. i'm paul , 24, and i've only very recently been able to realise / admit to myself that something terrible sexually happened to me as a child... and realise and accept how it affects my adult life. it is nice to read and see that i am not alone. i would love to meet people through this site...	solace	3	342	Jan 18, 2005 by Anachro1
	looking for a friend (Preview) hi i am trashelle. I was abused from an early age till i was 11(afraid i am a little shaky on the age it started). I was abused by an aunt and possibly others. I am just starting my journey but have found that talking to other survivers as well as trained professionals has really helped. For the first time i k...	trashelle	1	242	Jan 16, 2005 by jing
	worried (Preview) Hello all. I am new to this site and am a little worried about posting but would like to have an email pen pal. Ten years after my abuse, just now dealing with it. It's hard.	keekerdeekerdoo	1	237	Jan 15, 2005 by jing
	New Member - joined today (Preview) Hello All, Just wanted to introduce myself. I am 38 year old woman, happily married for the last 10 years with 1 grown up son and 2 grown up step children. I am a survivor of sexual abuse from age 12 to 14 by a much older man who was not a family member. The abuse took place every Sunday dur...	jing	1	236	Jan 14, 2005 by keekerdeekerdoo
	31 year old Thriver Lincolnshire Uk (Preview) Hi there I am Angie, I have been on the healing journey some 8 years. After many years of panic attacks and depression I have finally overcome them and begun to look after myself and realise I am important and worthy. I would love to email people of a similar age who has overcome many battles in the heali...	angieteddy	1	287	Jan 14, 2005 by jing
	Hi, new and nervous (Preview) Hi everyone, I'm new to this site and very nervous about posting. I've only just started to admit that my father abused me psycchologically, physically and sexually when i was growing up. I'm now 24 and just facing up to what happened. I'd love to hear from you, Flora	flora	2	281	Jan 14, 2005 by jing
	Newbie (Preview) I am very new at this and I have never told anyone about the abuse at my house growing up. I feeel sso scared right now. My stepfather sexaully abused me foe twelve years. I just need some one to talk to.	Kat	4	595	Jan 13, 2005 by Kat
	don't know what to do (Preview) my name is Kale. my brother sexually abused me from 3 until 15 almost every day. i cant get rid of the shame and hatred i feel for myself. i dont know what to do anymore -- Edited by kachariw at 15:55, 2004-12-28	Kale	2	310	Jan 7, 2005 by kim
	Just logged in (Preview) Hi, I just logged in to be able to take a look around the site. It's very impressive and well intentioned and I'm sure it's of great help to certain people. Unfortunately for me, I see that all the members seem to be female and I seem to be the only male here. Very odd. I think that childhood sexual e...	David1947	4	307	Dec 1, 2004 by David1947
	new member (Preview) hi im a 19 year old female college student.... i don't really feel comfortable saying a lot right this moment... but i thought the idea of joining something where there's bound to be someone that i can relate to sounded nice... i'll probally write more later... Peace	Dali03	6	380	Nov 24, 2004 by MelissaJoy02
	Brand New (Preview) Hey i am Melissa and am 20 yrs old. My cousin molested me when i was 7 yrs old and he was 14. He only did it once and it was at my grandparents house while they were down stairs and we were upstairs. Just trying to find a pen pal to chat w/ about it all b/c i am hoping one day to get past all of it....	MelissaJoy02	0	210	Nov 24, 2004 by MelissaJoy02
	new to this board (Preview) hi my name is michael im 28yrs old i have been married for 2 months and have 2 children and one on the way. i was mentally and physically abused from a very early age by my father grandfather and stepfather i was sent to a bording school at the age of 12 because i was emotionally disturbed within three...	michael	1	250	Nov 21, 2004 by kachariw
	pen pal (Preview) I am a 41 year old adult survivor of many years of abuse.As far back as I can remember is age 3. I would like to have a friend on the net. who woul like to be a buddy and listen to my my life and me listen to theirs . Maybe together we could help one another. &n...	debbie	0	243	Nov 20, 2004 by debbie
	New Member (Preview) Hi I have just joined and would like to chat with others . Thanks Lin	lin	2	213	Nov 16, 2004 by kachariw
	Hi Friends!!! Im a newbie (Preview) Hi all, Im new here.I was sexually and mentally abused from when I was 5 till 17 years of age by my sociopathic/wife beating/pedophile/alcoholic/sexual deviant father.He abused me,my little sister,any friend I would bring in my house.So I stopped having friends ov...	daisy	0	198	Oct 25, 2004 by daisy
	Hello everyone (Preview) Hi, My name is Jeremy, Jem for short. I am 38 and live in west yorkshire. I was abused by an uncle for 3 and a half years from the age of 14. After years of silence, my marriage broke down and I took an overdose to end it all. I survived it. I then told my Mother about my abuse and also my wife. When I told m...	Jem	2	286	Oct 25, 2004 by daisy
	Am I the only guy here? (Preview) Hi, I hope I'm not intruding. I only see women's names on the site. If this site is for women only, please tell me and I'll go away. My name is Steve, I'm 42 years old and I'm a man. I was abused by daycare providers when I was 4, 5, and 6 years old. Also had a physically and mentally abu...	StevenA875	3	308	Oct 23, 2004 by leckie
	Hi, (Preview) Just want to say hi, and maybe for someone to say hi to me. I feel so alone at times, even though I am married (for almost 16 years) and we have 3 girls and 1 boy. A year & 1/2 ago I told my Mother about what my dad did, everything kinda exploded from then... to make a long story short, dad die...	waskiw	5	298	Oct 21, 2004 by emm
	New Member Alert (Preview) Hello. Just joined. Been nosing around the site. I am 33. I was abused by my step father and my mother. I was regulary beaten from about aged 3 by both of them and bullied into silence. My step father started sexually abusing me from age 15 and continued beat...	CHEEKY DRAGON	4	341	Oct 18, 2004 by emm
	hello (Preview) its kind of funny to see 'new survivor' against my name. I am 43 and been a survivor for most of my life!! I have been visiting HAVOCA for a long time now ~ have even had two poems on the site a while ago. I just wanted to say HELLO and pleased to meet you all and sorry it is under these circumstan...	lucyharvey	4	251	Oct 17, 2004 by lucyharvey
	SORRY (Preview) Hello This is just to say a big SORRY to every one who wrote to me. I thought that I would have enough time to start some conversations with others. Since posting the previous post life has changed, trying to come to terms with schedules imposed by others is very hard...	Segelov	1	287	Oct 14, 2004 by amanda
	New Here (Preview) First night on site. Hope this works. Have multiple diagnoses, from panic disorder, to PTSD and dissociate (only one personality though) Was recently given dx of manic depression. Mental Health has bounced me from one therapist to another for two years now. Dad was a sadistic rapist tha...	nutinhoney24	5	296	Oct 14, 2004 by lucyharvey
	Hello (Preview) Hello, just introducing myself, I am a 52 year old woman, with two daughters and two grandchildren. I make a living by helping to run three very small businesses. I was abused psychologicaly, emotionaly and physically for most of my childhood. I was raped when I was ten by the father of two of my half s...	Segelov	1	272	Oct 6, 2004 by Segelov
	new member (Preview) just saying hi. Ive never done this before so thought would give it a go. Im 31 years old and have was abused by a baby sitter/family friend since as far back as i can remeber until i was 16 years old. I told my grandad and then he started to abuse me to. Im pretty messed up and i hate myse...	suzy	3	258	Sep 30, 2004 by CHEEKY DRAGON
	just saying hello.... (Preview) Hello - My name is Liz, I'm 44 (wow that looks old)!. Married with a 12 year old son who thinks I AM old! and live in South Yorkshire, uk. I was sexually abused as a teen-ager, disclosed nearly 4 years ago and sometimes wonder why I did - never realising then how the effects wou...	liz	7	371	Sep 20, 2004 by ouchzone
	Hi - I'm JC (Preview) I'm a 46 year old woman, married (twice) with no children. I'm working as a professional in a fairly high-stress occupation. I'm dealing with maternal abuse, physical and psychological, and neglect. I'm also dealing with complete family estrangement - no contact with either close or ext...	growing roots and wings	2	467	Sep 20, 2004 by ouchzone
	Hi to everyone (Preview) Just want to say hi to everyone and thank you to Havoca for providing this forum. I am a 50 yr old lady who was abused for many years and am travelling the painful journey of healing at present. I hope that together with others here we can share our journey and give support to each other un...	numb	1	234	Sep 18, 2004 by ouchzone
	new member (Preview) Just would like to say hello to everyone as I am a new member. I am 44 years old, a mum of six. Iwas abused from an early age by various members of my family includind my father and grandfather. I have many dark spaces in my memoy. I disclosed about 3 nearly 4 years ago and am working through my life trying to fi...	maryellen	2	238	Sep 17, 2004 by leckie
	hi (Preview) Hi My name is Angela, aged 38 and living in manchester. I was sexually abused from the age of 2 till 13 by friends / acquaintainces of the family. Not really sure what I am expecting or hoping to get from this, but I dont have anything to loose. Take care and hopefully talk to you soon...	amroberts66	2	734	Sep 15, 2004 by leckie
	Hi from Louise (Preview) Hi everyone, I am a 19 year old girl and i was sexually abused by my older cousin for the best part of four years, i told my secret last year and didnt really get the best reactiona or support from my family. I sometime wish i had never even told at all maybe it would have been easier to deal with than the...	Tears	2	316	Sep 14, 2004 by leckie
	He thinks he's won (Preview) my stepfather seems to think that he has ruined my life but he is mistaken his sexual abuse towards me turned me into a loner and afraid to talk to anyone as he told me if i told he would kill me and anyway no one would believe me. so i just grew up on my own from the age of 10 not caring or feeling for anyone and if i...	leckie	2	288	Sep 14, 2004 by leckie
	Having been a childhood sexworker and prostitute (Preview) As a younger child i had been suffered child abuse and had been a childhood sexworker and prostitute and people in my area still want me to be their sexworker. I am Adrenal Hyperplasia (Intersex) and would like to contact people in edinburgh/scotland and elsewhere as I am recovering fro...	amy_jewish	0	303	Sep 14, 2004 by amy_jewish
	Tracy (Preview) Hello - My name is Tracy. I am 39 years old and live in the North East of England. I was systematically sexually and physically abused by my father for around 12 years until I had the courage to escape the day before my 18th birthday. Why did I wait so long? The truth is I didn't realis...	Tracy	1	229	Sep 14, 2004 by amanda
	AMANDA (Preview) Hello I am aware I am the first and this scares me as I feel a bit of a guinea pig but I hope I dont put you off replying. My name is Amanda I am 45 years of age live in England on the South Coast by the sea. My life was one of ritual abuse involving sexual physical and emotional punishments I hope I am a g...	amanda	4	350	Sep 13, 2004 by leckie
	New member saying Hello (Preview) Hello to all here on the forun. I actually got the link from a survivor from another survivors group that I am in. My story is long and confusing. I have posted my story on a webpage on a abuse support website, if you care to take the time to read my story, here is the link http://m...	Missy	2	349	Sep 13, 2004 by Missy
	hello (Preview) Hi I'm caren 34 from lancs uk ,mum to 6 wonderful kids and a wonderful B/F mark I suffered sexual , physical , and mental abuse from both my mum and dad , looking to chat to people that have been though same take care	caren34	2	323	Sep 13, 2004 by kachariw
	me (Preview) hey.... I live in Birmingham and I am 23, I was abused by my cousin for four years from the age of four. i was raped by three different men on three different occasions when i was 18,19 and when i was 20. i am finding it difficult to believe that it can happen that many times without it being at least partly my f...	LittleDragon	4	329	Sep 13, 2004 by kachariw
	hi, (Preview) hi all, hi my name is Di and i am 28 and just moved to birmingham, I was abused from 4 till i was 13 by my mothers brother and now i am trying to come to terms with it as i never delt with this till now, i hope now im trying to sort this things will get better?? Di	pokeitdi	6	283	Sep 13, 2004 by kachariw
	Kelly (Preview) Hiya my name is Kelly i am 23 from Worthing. I was sexually, emotionally and physically abused by my stepfather for many years. After a long struggle he was put in prison... that was 6 years ago and hes due for parol soon, i am quite worried about this although the police and such like are very support...	Brujah81	4	320	Sep 13, 2004 by kachariw
	Bob Smith (Example only) (Preview) Hi, My name is Bob, I'm 23 years old and I'm a man. I would love to chat to people who have suffered with childhood abuse. I was abused by my parents when I was an infant and I have suffered as a consequence since. Please use the private message function, after you have clicked on my name on...	Bob	0	268	Sep 7, 2004 by Bob
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