my name is Kale. my brother sexually abused me from 3 until 15 almost every day. i cant get rid of the shame and hatred i feel for myself. i dont know what to do anymore
Dear kale, Well that is a very difficalt thing, u have to lived throw.My sister abused me from they age 7 tell I was 13.Then I went to boarding school in they UK.And was abused by a male teacher for one year, befor I told any one.There is no quike ficks, but what u are feeling is very normal.I am just tearning 20, and every day, is a strugal just to get up, and do anything.I cry alot, and never realy know why I do..........my friends dont realy understand me, I am gay, and u could say a boylover to.But remeber, u can do anything u wont to.U are your own person, and dont need any one.Life is hard, yes, but u can get over this, it will take time, friends, love, and most off alll, they belief that u can do anything u wont to.
DEAR KALE, I WAS ABUSED AS A GIRL OF 4 YRS TO 9YRS BY MANY DIFFERENT PEOLPE AND I CAN IDENTIFY WITH YOUR FEELINGS OF GUILT AND SHAME AND I KNOW THIS WONT BRING MUCH RELIEF BUT TAKE IT FROM ME THAT GUILT AND SHAME BELONGS TO HIM BECAUSE YOU WERE A CHILD.ITS SO EASY FOR THE ABUSERS TO ALLOW THE CHILD TO FEEL RESPOSABLE ,THIS ASSURES THEM OF THEIR SILENCE.
IT DOESINT ALWAYS FEEL THIS WAY KALE,HANG IN THERE ,TALK ALOT,YOUVE NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED ABOUT.
