hi,

pokeitdi · New Survivor

hi,

Brujah81 · Survivor

When you say you are sorting it out.. do you mean in your head or as in police etc.. I know its not possible for everyone to get there abuser put away for various reasons, and its very hard to go through court, i did three times before he was put away, but i see it not as a victory for me but as one for everyone as there is (although he soon to be released possibly) one less sex monster out there hurting children whilst he is inside..

Sorry maybe i am ranting a little..

Sorting things in your head can take a long time and i dont think its something people ever get over.. but then again this is my opinion not one of a proffesional... but you can deal with how you feel and percieve things..

There we go.. probally just scared everyone off......

Blessings

Kelly

Brujah81 · Survivor

Sorry i think my above post was a little ranting and i apologise to all that read it and especially pokeitdi.

Kelly

LittleDragon · New Survivor

hey di......

pokeitdi · New Survivor

kellly....

please dont think you have to appologise,

as for sorting it out, what i ment was in my head, i am trying to come to terms with it and and get on day to day, the doctor put me on prozac about two months ago and it seemed to work at first? i didnt feel as depressed about what happened but it didnt last long?

the anti depressants just seem to make it less of an issue for me and i dont think i want that? i do need to sort it out by going to see a proffesional like a councellor or somthing as ive never been able to go and see someone about this, to talk about it or sort through my feelings about what he did??

if you know what i mean??

di.

Brujah81 · Survivor

Anti depressants are good.. for a time but its my opinion that they just mask the problem not deal with it, councelling is good although i admit i have had councelling but havent found the right councellor for me yet...( sorry about the spelling)

i get frustrated and depressed alot but when i do i tend to write poetry as it helps turn the feelings and confusion in my head into something i can deal with, its also good to look back at poems you have written in the past about things that depress you, abuse and such.. You dont have to show them to anyone if you dont want to, i have only recently started sharing a few poems i have written , but have noticed that only people who have been abused themselves can truely understand them, other people who havent been abused think i should be locked up in a mental asylum after reading them.. go figure!..

Blessings Kelly

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