Hello, i myself live near the south coast although admittedly it is a big area..
I too was abused emotionally, and sexually.. as well as physically.. i think alot of abusers tend to use it as punishment or bribery into it.. thats what my stepfather did..
I dont have any children, and am somewhat nervous about the prospect of having children in the future after what happened to me.. i feel i can relate to you in some ways feel free to reply or private message me
First can I just say thanks to everyone for making this community a friendly and welcoming place.
Secondly can I just remind you all to contact individuals using the private message facility accessible by clicking on the username of the person you want to contact. This keeps chat down and maximises the space for personal ads. Thanks.
hi amanda my names john i am 45 and just been facing my sexual physical and mental abuse from my stepfather and i now feel as though i am just starting my life now and yes you do feel lonley even though there are people there around you i can only hope it gets easier as time gose on you feel like no one understands and i think that is true unless you have been there
that is why i joined this to find and talk to people who do understand what we have all went through to survive and i have no doupts that you are a good mother just ask your children theyll tell you take care and be happy, john