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Silverwolf · Silverwolf

I am having difficulty even thinking about writing about what happened to me. I guess I'll start off with something simple. I was at my cousi's bday party not long ago, and we were laughing about how her kids accidentally got into a magazine that had dildos in it. The magazine was all fairies and ren-fai...

sharon613 · sharon613

20 years ago, my neices and nephes were taken into custody by child welfare people. My sister never had gotten her kids back and after me and my husband had stepped in to try and fight for them; we didn't succeed and my sister signed away her rights. Unfortunately, 20 years later, my daughter had teame...

Callie Mae · Callie Mae

I'm glad I found this sight. I haven't spoke about this in awhile so I'm just goin to start typing. When I was five my mom remarried. My father is an alcoholic he's a very kind man though. Anyways my new stepdad molested me for years as a child. I believe it started when I was 5 or six but I'm not positive....

cw13 · cw13

Never really spoken about this, never truthfully, so here goes.... When I was 8 -ish I was taken round the back of the houses by a guy that lived across from me. He would claim that we were going to play and I remember being happy to have a new friend! Instead he would take off his trousers and make me touch h...

CGray · CGray

I've never been apart of anything like this, and I've never admitted to what happened to me to anyone other than my family. I'm 19 years old. Barely an adult. I was abused at 14 by a family friend. I can't bring myself to type all the details yet. I just, am overwhelmed lately with anger and anxiety and I thi...

kachariw · kachariw

Please be advised that this forum is closing down soon. It is old and outdated. Our main forums with over 1600 members can be found here: http://www.havoca.org/phpBB3 Please come along and join us.

smilingthroughtherain · smilingthroughtherain

I'm not really sure where this is going. I'm new here, and am seem to go through cycles of *having* to deal with what I went through as a child. Problem is, I start trying to talk about it, and then freeze up, and frantically try to bury it all again. I'm now 32 and am a mum to 2 kids. I don't want to be running f...

mo · mo

well i dont even know where to start to be quiet honest... well here goes i have recently split up with my husband of 18yrs only to realise that i cant put nothing more in my minds chest and everything from childhood to present day came flooding out... i come from a not so functional family of 8 i never thoug...

Tinker · Tinker

The man who abused me as a child has just paid an out of court settlement. At last I'm not guilty. He has not adimtted that he is guilty but his payment says he is. After living with the guilt for 40 years I'm starting a new life. I've been in therapy for some time. This has helped with the courage to approach a...

kachariw · kachariw

The HAVOCA Pen Pal Community has been set up to encourage survivors to talk to each other, offering support, advice and friendship (over 18s only). First of all you need to log in as a member. Even if you belong to the other HAVOCA forum you will still need to join this one as well. Feel fre...

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	Don't know where to start humiliated (Preview) I am having difficulty even thinking about writing about what happened to me. I guess I'll start off with something simple. I was at my cousi's bday party not long ago, and we were laughing about how her kids accidentally got into a magazine that had dildos in it. The magazine was all fairies and ren-fai...	Silverwolf	0	1054	Nov 18, 2013 by Silverwolf
	Looking for someone to counsel me (Preview) 20 years ago, my neices and nephes were taken into custody by child welfare people. My sister never had gotten her kids back and after me and my husband had stepped in to try and fight for them; we didn't succeed and my sister signed away her rights. Unfortunately, 20 years later, my daughter had teame...	sharon613	0	700	Nov 6, 2013 by sharon613
	Life After (Preview) I'm glad I found this sight. I haven't spoke about this in awhile so I'm just goin to start typing. When I was five my mom remarried. My father is an alcoholic he's a very kind man though. Anyways my new stepdad molested me for years as a child. I believe it started when I was 5 or six but I'm not positive....	Callie Mae	0	626	Jul 30, 2013 by Callie Mae
	embarrasing (Preview) Never really spoken about this, never truthfully, so here goes.... When I was 8 -ish I was taken round the back of the houses by a guy that lived across from me. He would claim that we were going to play and I remember being happy to have a new friend! Instead he would take off his trousers and make me touch h...	cw13	1	1341	Jul 18, 2013 by loopy
	Help (Preview) I've never been apart of anything like this, and I've never admitted to what happened to me to anyone other than my family. I'm 19 years old. Barely an adult. I was abused at 14 by a family friend. I can't bring myself to type all the details yet. I just, am overwhelmed lately with anger and anxiety and I thi...	CGray	4	1007	Nov 15, 2012 by Laz
	This Forum Closing Down Soon (Preview) Please be advised that this forum is closing down soon. It is old and outdated. Our main forums with over 1600 members can be found here: http://www.havoca.org/phpBB3 Please come along and join us.	kachariw	0	1157	Jul 5, 2011 by kachariw
	New (Preview) I'm not really sure where this is going. I'm new here, and am seem to go through cycles of having to deal with what I went through as a child. Problem is, I start trying to talk about it, and then freeze up, and frantically try to bury it all again. I'm now 32 and am a mum to 2 kids. I don't want to be running f...	smilingthroughtherain	1	955	Jun 6, 2011 by Spencer
	confussed (Preview) well i dont even know where to start to be quiet honest... well here goes i have recently split up with my husband of 18yrs only to realise that i cant put nothing more in my minds chest and everything from childhood to present day came flooding out... i come from a not so functional family of 8 i never thoug...	mo	0	992	May 5, 2011 by mo
	New beginning (Preview) The man who abused me as a child has just paid an out of court settlement. At last I'm not guilty. He has not adimtted that he is guilty but his payment says he is. After living with the guilt for 40 years I'm starting a new life. I've been in therapy for some time. This has helped with the courage to approach a...	Tinker	0	1240	Jan 18, 2010 by Tinker
	About the HPPC (closed) (Preview) The HAVOCA Pen Pal Community has been set up to encourage survivors to talk to each other, offering support, advice and friendship (over 18s only). First of all you need to log in as a member. Even if you belong to the other HAVOCA forum you will still need to join this one as well. Feel fre...	kachariw	0	1565	Sep 7, 2004 by kachariw
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