The man who abused me as a child has just paid an out of court settlement. At last I'm not guilty. He has not adimtted that he is guilty but his payment says he is. After living with the guilt for 40 years I'm starting a new life. I've been in therapy for some time. This has helped with the courage to approach a solicitor. Recently I spent time with a Shaman to heal the slit part of me so that my soul is complete once again. 40 years of guilt and shame! At last I can live me life with the scar instead of the open wound.