Hi Everyone,
  I'm tabby, well my user name is anyway. I'm new to all this, I'm 33, my past is very confusing and I forget lots of it apart from when it comes and bites me when I least expect it but I suffer depresion, ocd, and am a major people pleaser, I've seen a councilor once in my entire life and she says most of this is because ofthe abuse, but I haven't been back to hear any more, I guess I'm just not ready. I take each day as it comes wether it be good or bad. I don't cope fantasticly well but I make the best of what I have that's all I can do right now.
The one thing I do do well in my life is help others, I'm really good at that maybe it's the people pleaser in me but I get a lot out of helping others through their pain and supporting people in many tough positions. I like to think that some kind of good has come out of all the bad things i have and in many ways still am going through.
Anyway, I just wanted to introduce myself and say that although I may not have been through the exact same thing that others on here have,I've been through a lot from as young as I can remember,  I know what the outcome of abuse feels like as I'm sure you all do, and I'm here to offer as much help as I can.
Tabby